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Redefining Dreams...

Updated: Oct 9, 2024

What are your dreams in life? Lately, I’ve been asking myself this a lot, and funny enough, the answer seems to change every year. When I was younger, I wanted to be a fashion designer—until I realized I could barely sew a button and that my natural state was more ‘sweats and sneakers’ than ‘couture.’ Then came my youtube phase, where I was convinced I’d be the next big thing. But after a few auditions and a closer look at the industry, I realized I didn’t want to live in the spotlight. So, scratch that. I even tried a stint in marketing, then dabbled in event planning, and let’s not forget my phase of wanting to be in fitness! I’ve failed, lived and learned but through that process I found my strenghts. I released my book to the public this week, I have a successful online business, and I model/travel inn differennt countires. See through failure, you can discover what truly lights you up, I know i did!


Now, I’m in this place where I am discovering new talennts and hobbies, In this moment, all i want tp do is to cook from scratch, write new books and maybe even paint—even though I’m not exactly a Picasso yet..... Is this the start of a new era? Maybe. And I’m beginning to see that as we grow, our dreams change, and that’s completely okay. Every time I’ve “failed” at one career, it’s been a little nudge pushing me toward what I genuinely love.


When you’re not trapped in some 9-to-5 job you despise, you start to glow. You feel more comfortable in your skin, and suddenly, your light shines a bit brighter. It’s all part of the journey, right?


So let’s dive deep: What are your dreams? And remember, it’s totally fine if they’re not the same as they were last year, or even last month. When I was 12, I had this naive vision of my 20s: four kids, a house, and a Vogue cover. Spoiler alert: life had other plans. But I’ve come to realize that failing, shifting, and pivoting are all part of figuring out what sets your soul on fire. Sometimes, things don’t work out because they’re not meant to; they’re simply steering us toward what is.


We have to trust the process. Every ‘failure’ is just a plot twist leading you to your next chapter. So, dream big. Fail hard. Change direction. And if your dreams morph into something completely new? That’s just part of the magic.


Xoxo,

Victoria S








 
 
 

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